One benefit of de-cluttering is that it teaches you to listen to your intuition. Usually there is so much ‘noise’ that we don’t hear that inner voice. If you use Marie Kondo’s rule of thumb of ‘Does this spark joy?’, then you have to go with that gut instinct. When I’m Koaching, watching the facial expression in an indication of that first split-second gut instinct. The extra seconds of hesitation generally show an inner battle of trying to talk yourself out of that initial thought. See how happy this woman looks? This blue dress sparks joy. It’s a keeper. … Continue reading Ask yourself this question”Does this ‘spark joy’?
Facebook has a semi-new feature called ‘On This Day’. It is a stroll down Memory Lane to see what you posted on this same day and month in years prior. I find it interesting. While a nostalgic photo may bring back memories, what I find most interesting is how events seemingly are cyclical in nature. This goes beyond holiday celebrations. For example, On This Day (January 13, 2013) I wrote: “When stressed, eat chocolate. Is it possible to overdose on MnMs?” Presently, I am stressed and eating chocolate. On This Day (January 13, 2011) I wrote: “The captain is down…I hope the ship doesn’t sink. The first … Continue reading On This Day
The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines INTUITION as ” a natural ability or power that makes it possible to know something without any proof or evidence : a feeling that guides a person to act a certain way without fully understanding why”. Marie Kondo and her famous KonMari method is all about intuition. If the item ‘sparks joy’, it’s a keeper. If it doesn’t, pass it on. It is a mere fraction of a second of thought in our brain. It’s an instant thumbs up or thumbs down gut reaction. I tell clients that if you hesitate, that’s your answer, as you … Continue reading Intuition, De-cluttering, and Marie Kondo
How often do you ask yourself this question? Perhaps you know exactly where they are. You’re in the lucky minority if you aren’t constantly searching. Let’s say you know exactly where your keys are, however… Does this look your key ring? Or this? Can you find the key to your front door? Or is it like trying to find Waldo in a Where’s Waldo photo. Not good. Especially when you really need to use the toilet. I’m pleased to announce my key ring didn’t look as bad as either one of these above however I realized I was carrying around more than I needed. I really hadn’t … Continue reading Where are my Keys?
Joys. Toys. Boys. Oys. What do these words have in common? Other than rhyming, what’s the link? (Remember, I am an English teacher.) Toys have a purpose to serve: to engage young minds in creative play, build cognitive skills, and/or have fun. This is the joy of toys. Boys and girls enjoy playtime. The ‘oys’ come when there are simply too many toys to manage. I have embraced Marie Kondo’s philosophy “if it doesn’t spark joy, don’t keep it’. This applies to all things, toys included. An observant parent will know what her children play with and what they don’t. … Continue reading The Joys of Toys
Lately, on my organizing groups, I’ve seen many posts dealing with toy storage. The suggestions are great. However, I am very bothered by the photos accompanying the articles. What irks me is two-fold. Firstly, the quantity of toys to organize is overwhelming. Secondly, the photo is staged because no children’s room is that immaculate. What is the reality of that room after five minutes of playtime? Most likely, the beautifully coordinated bins are overturned, stuff is everywhere, and the room looks like a tornado hit. So, the questions I have are how long does the clean up take and who is doing the straightening? I … Continue reading The Joys of Toys. How to declutter and keep toys from taking over your home
I saw a very cute cartoon the other day. It said something to the effect of singleton socks are hanging out somewhere with the storage container lids and laughing at us. There was a second cartoon where Teacher Sock is telling the other socks to use the buddy system as they enter the dryer in the way children do on a field trip. It is an interesting phenomenon. Why are there so many socks without mates? Why do the storage container lids not have a bottom to go with them? I really don’t know. Your guess is as good as mine. Since this does … Continue reading Unpaired Socks and Storage Container Lids
Just in case you were not sure of the topic of this post, it is on the topic of de-cluttering. Both in ‘real life’ as well as in cyberspace via Facebook groups, I hear people discuss how desperate they are to get organized. I hear so many women bemoaning how difficult it is to keep the house straightened. It does not matter if they work from home, work out of the home, or are SAHMs. Everyone has the same complaint. The solution is NOT to run to Ikea or Target and buy some organizer product. Why? You cannot organize clutter. You … Continue reading De-clutter De-clutter De-clutter
One of my all-time favorite movies is Mary Poppins. One of my all-time favorite scenes in the movie is when Mary Poppins helps Jane and Michael tidy up the nursery. As a young, impressionable child, this scene left a mark on my psyche. Yes, I knew it was movie magic. But somewhere inside, some part of me wished I could snap my fingers and everything I needed to put away would levitate into place. As much as I hoped or even tried, maybe it just might work, it didn’t. Clean-up time is a DIY task. Having a handful of kids at home, … Continue reading It’s Clean Up Time
One of my favorite films of all time is You’ve Got Mail starring Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks. No, this post isn’t a tribute to this classic film. It’s about what action to take after you have received an e-mail. How much mail is in YOUR in-box at the moment? As I type this post, I have 9 messages total in my in-box. Not 9 unread messages, but simply 9 messages. I have a note from my dad, a community list-serve digest, three personal correspondences, a message from my health insurance, and three messages I sent to myself with dates I must transfer to my calendar. That’s … Continue reading You’ve Got Mail!